I don’t want to start a philosophical or theological debate about this so let me offer a caveat at the outset: when I distinguish between a human being and a person I am distinguishing between the common accident of birth all Homo sapiens share and how some turn that accident into an intentional, conscious life. In my experience thereContinue reading “Becoming a Person”
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Leading From the True Self
The purpose of the true self is to keep us honest about playing as big as we can, fully living into our particular gifts. It knows that when we do so we are healthier, happier, and more energetically and generously connected to both self and others. That’s why the true self scares us so much.Continue reading “Leading From the True Self”
As of today…
This transitional, uncertain, ill-defined space, this space in which you find yourself as a result of a recent change, this space which has you feeling anxious, uncomfortable, longing for “normal,” this is your space, but only as of today. There are two things to remember about this space: It is not a permanent condition. ItContinue reading “As of today…”
What it takes
There is no transformation without risk. Any lasting change demands us to stretch well beyond our present comfort; so much so that we cannot help becoming, finally, a version of ourselves we did not know was possible.
Anyone Can Cook
I don’t cook that often but when I do, I especially like to braise. Braising is a cooking method that typically calls for a few minutes of searing on high heat (this is perfect for chicken thighs or short ribs) followed by some combination of butter, onions, garlic and mushrooms and then some wine orContinue reading “Anyone Can Cook”
Becoming a Person
I don’t want to start a philosophical or theological debate about this so let me offer a caveat at the outset: when I distinguish between a human being and a person I am distinguishing between the common accident of birth all Homo sapiens share and how some turn that accident into an intentional, conscious life. In my experience thereContinue reading “Becoming a Person”
Second Life
Dead and fallen the road becomes a canvas on which is revealed a second life. DAVID BERRY is the author of “A More Daring Life: Finding Voice at the Crossroads of Change” and the founder of RULE13 Learning. He speaks and writes about the complexity of leading in a changing world. Connect with him on Twitter at @berrydavid.
Smooth Power
“In general, you can lead people (only) as far as you have gone. Transformed people transform people.” – adapted from Richard Rohr During the World Series game on Friday night a commentator said that a pitcher was forcing his power instead of relying on his mechanics to produce smooth power. This reminded me of the differenceContinue reading “Smooth Power”
One Beam of Light
I think it’s extraordinary that even the smallest light can illuminate the darkest space. Consider that for a moment: no matter how dark it is, if you have one ray, one beam of light, you can see. And once you can see, you can act. And once you can act you are steps away fromContinue reading “One Beam of Light”
Do the Work
“If we do not transform our pain we will most certainly transmit it.” – Richard Rohr There’s a line from the poem “Out on the Ocean” by David Whyte that conveys Rohr’s meaning with visceral urgency: “Always this energy smoulders inside, when it remains unlit the body fills with dense smoke.” That unlit energy isContinue reading “Do the Work”
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